Adultery? Cheating? Infidelity?

I have completely been there. The betrayal that you feel after being cheated on in the pit of your gut is one of the worst feelings in the world. Whether you forgive or not depends on your individual cirumstance. I chose to walk away.

Why? I have been cheated on. And I have forgiven the cheater. And forgiven again. And again. My mistake. In my love experience when someone shows you who they are, as Dr. Maya Angelou says, believe them the first time. If you have children then you may have other considerations, but I think that people who love each other should stick to the terms of their relationship. Fidelity may or may not be one of those terms for you. Cheating is betrayal, and for me betrayal is a relationship deal breaker. Time to breakup!

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