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Abiola Abrams Biography

Abiola Abrams, Media Personality and Author, Love, Sex, Inspiration

Abiola Abrams, Media Personality

Abiola Abrams, Media Personality and Author, Love, Sex, Inspiration

Abiola Abrams, Media Personality and Author, Love, Sex, Inspiration

Abiola Abrams, Media Personality

Abiola Abrams, Media Personality

Adult Workshops


The Mystical, Magical Power of Self Love

We hear it from the day we're born -- love, yourself, love yourself, love yourself -- but we don't know what that means. The main reason we don't know what it means is that the people telling it to us don't know what it means either. Our mothers and fathers can't teach us to love ourselves if they didn't know how to love themselves.

Loving ourselves truly and unconditionally has nothing to do with ego. Self love is not about how amazing your job is, how you wear your hair, how many degrees or facebook friends you have, whether you have the right bag or shoes; or how many times you can use the word fabulous to describe your life. Loving you is about knowing deep in your soul that no matter what happens, you are enough. When you love you you're meticulous about the foods and substances you put into your body and the people and distractions you allow into your life.

We get trapped by our stories. We secretly feel that we are our gender, our race, our social status, our educational level when we are so much more. Our stories are noble and worthy, but we are not just victims and survivors.

The condition of your life circumstances are a mirror, showing exactly what you think of yourself. If you think that you are unworthy, undeserving, unable, your life will reflect that. The real truth is that you deserve more. You are worthy and more powerful than you can imagine. There is an incredible life waiting for you.

Let's talk about rising up to meet it. Yeah!!


Adult Sex Ed 101 

Let's talk about sex, baby. Abiola Abrams starts at the beginning. Even if you think you know all there is to know about sex, you don't. This is a fun, informative and empowering multimedia talk. Topics include safe sex, good sex, female orgasm, better interpersonal relationships, GLBTQ facts and even dating advice.

Why is pleasure such a forbidden topic? Let's go... there! Toys and orgasms and anatomy, oh my! For Abiola safe sex means sex that is safe mentally as well as physically. We discuss HIV and STD prevention and we also talk about self esteem. This inclusive talk is appropriate for every gender and sexual orientation. Abiola is expanding her "Cover Your Bone Zone" safe sex pledge to be more inclusive. So far, the only person who has refused to take her safe sex pledge was the rapper-actor Ludicris! He said that he wanted his lawyer to look at it first.

Ask Abiola anything. We don't even allow embarrassment to enter the room! The talk is interactive as Abiola makes the audience Q&A an important part of the event. Questions can be asked during the speech, in advance anonymously or via text anonymously during the talk.


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As seen at the Women's Empowerment Summit, Single in Stilettos Relationship Forum for Women and the upcoming Momentum Convention. 
 

 

NYC SINGLE IN STILETTOS CONFERENCE



NYC WOMEN'S EMPOWERMENT SUMMIT



"I am the first generation American daughter of Guyanese immigrants & the prospective victim of many "isms." Boo-hoo! Let's move on. Life is not about bowing down to victimization. I look forward to hosting or moderating for you, bringing a short film program or giving a talk about blowing expectations, shedding victimhood and walking through obstacles. Yeah! You are more powerful than you can imagine."  

Photo by Joseph W. Carey for stark-arts.com.


Key Talks include NYU Keynote Speech, hosting the African American Literary Awards, the Visions & Visionaries Panel in Toronto , Henry Street School of International Studies UN Anniversary Speech and  Sex and the City Event at the New School for Social Research, Barnes and Nobles, Borders, Hip Hop for Health Shades of Beauty, Casa Attabex Ache, Vixens and Visionaries Conference in Toronto...

 
 

Abiola Abrams

The Bombshell Handbook - Memoir and Sexy Advice Guide
COMING IN 2012


 
Irresistible You: Seductive Secrets to Become the Woman of Your Sweetie's Dreams (and Yours!)
 
Hey Gorgeous. I'm on a mission to help you to become the irresistible bombshell you've always wanted to be. In my talk/workshop you'll learn concrete advice and tips on how to captivate. Let's talk: What is sexy? Do looks matter? What's your body language really saying? How can you become a charismatic master seducer? Is mystery overrated? How does your cultural programming standing in your way? Are you setting yourself up for love failure? Does your behavior turn people on or turn people off? And what does sex have to do with it?

Most of us are suffering from Post Traumatic Love Syndrome or Love Deficit Disorder. At some time in our lives we had our hearts broken and never healed. We could have had our hearts broken when we were children or when we were adults but the result is the same; we created a way to sabotage ourselves. When we are love deprived adults, we're constantly regenerating love blockers that are creating the opposite effect in our lives from what we want because we're starving.

If you keep doing what you've been doing you'll keep getting the same old stuff that is not working for you. Stop programming your love life for failure. Let's figure out exactly what you want and stop repeating behaviors that are clearly not getting the results we want. This is the real law of attraction. It's time to become the irresistible you. Singlistas, let's go!


 

On a panel with Jamye Waxman and Candida Royalle.
With Jamye Waxman & Candida Royalle at The New School.


Key Topics: Love, Sex, Dating, Self Esteem, Empowerment, Inside Out Makeovers, Feminism, Race & Gender, Finding Your Voice, Overcoming Fear...

 

PREPARE YOUR AUDIENCE for a life-changing event! Abiola's motivational talks include an interactive blend of information and inspirationAbiola_Logo.jpg. Audiences of all ages, cultures and genders have been moved to tears, laughter and ACTION all the way.


 
 
ABIOLA'S SHORT FILMS & DOCS, daring and politically incorrect, yet socially conscious include: KNIVES IN MY THROAT, about overcoming depression, OPHELIA'S OPERA, a relationship violence revenge tale, STRANDED, a romantic comedy about gender and cultural miscommunication, TABOO, about unmasking racial interactions, ALICIA IN WONDERLAND & AFRODITE SUPERSTAR, about sexual empowermentand THE BLACK COUNT, about the questionable comforts of victimhood.

 

Dare: A Hip Hop Love Story


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